Investing in yourself isn’t easy but it’s worth the struggle.
In this episode of the We Legit 16: Stories & Hustle Podcast, we break down the real journey of investing in yourself from the wins nobody sees to the struggles nobody talks about.
From self-doubt and financial risk to discipline, consistency, and personal growth, this conversation dives into what it truly means to bet on yourself and build something from the ground up.
If you’re an entrepreneur, building a business, or trying to level up your mindset, this episode is for you. We talk about staying locked in when results are slow, handling setbacks without quitting, and why believing in yourself is the most important investment you’ll ever make.
This isn’t overnight success this is the long game.
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- Investing in yourself
- Entrepreneur mindset
- Discipline & consistency
- Personal growth & resilience
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Welcome back, Welcome back, welcome back.
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How's everybody doing on this evening?
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Now let's get into today's episode.
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Yo man, what's good? You're locked into the We Legit
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Stories and Hustle podcast. What real stories meet real
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grind? This platform is for hustlers,
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creators, entrepreneurs and everyday people turning pain
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into purpose. If you are chasing a vision,
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building from the ground up, or grinding when nobody's watching,
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this podcast is for you. Now let's get into today's
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episode. Today's episode is how growth
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and business changes friendships, dating, and family
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dynamics. This episode is about cutting
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people off. Not so much cutting people off,
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but it's about understanding why some relationships naturally
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change as you level up. Growth creates distance not from
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ego but from different priorities, habits, and
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mindsets. You can love a person and still
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outgrow certain dynamics. What I mean by that is in life
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they don't have to be business related but just life in
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general. You know your mindset change on
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a lot of different things. Some people have kids that
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change their perspective. Some people get tired of doing
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the same old, same old. They change their perspective.
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Some people go to college, pick up a trade and certain things
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that they're learning and these financial institutions or life
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in general, it's changing their mindset to where, you know,
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partying, hanging out, doing all the things is cool, but I got a
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life to take care of. I'm trying to go ahead higher in
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life and you know, I just don't want to be bothered with too
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much of all nonsense. But to incorporate that in
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business aspect, you know, when you're going to a trade school,
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when you're going to college, that's an investment in yourself
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that a lot of people don't take really serious because it takes
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a lot of courage for a person to be like, you know what, I'm
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getting tired of this. I'm I'm gonna do something
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different. So when you start doing
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something different, your usual crowd that you're part of, look
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at you like, oh, that's what we doing.
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You trying to show me up. You're trying to act like you're
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better than me. And it's not that my person is
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trying to be better than the next.
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It's just things happen in life where you know, you gotta make
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changes. A lot of people can't be the
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same person they was when they was 18.
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From 18 to 21, a lot of things can happen that transpired time
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to make a person change. And then from 21 to 25, a whole
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lot can change from that 18 year old mindset.
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So it's just another thing to look into.
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But when you're investing in yourself, time becomes valuable.
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Whether you have kids, whether you're starting the company,
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start from the ground up, investing yourself in trade
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school or going to college, or you found a real good job that
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you really like that you see yourself moving up there.
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Your time is going to be valuable because you're
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dedicating the time investing in yourself or investing in your
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children's own future. And it don't require a lot of
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nonsense and BS. And I'm and in that aspect, it
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makes you more focused. It gets you sharper.
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You know what to tolerate. You know who to bring around,
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you know who to have in your corner, you know who to trust
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and the tolerance for distraction drops.
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So partying, clubbing, being outside, having fun, trying to
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go viral, making videos, it's not going to catch your
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attention like it once was when you decide to make this change
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to invest in yourself. So a lot of things you got to
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put on the back burner. And it's kind of like a story of
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one of my relatives that said that it hurt his heart that he
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got in trouble in the mid 80s. He got out in the early 90s and
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he was trying to make a change for hisself and his family
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didn't like the fact of him trying to do right.
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But he couldn't afford to be out hanging like that because he had
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a kid to take care of and he was trying to do something different
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because, you know, he was gone for a while and came out as an
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adult. So his mind frame is different
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from when it was as a teenager. One way to look at things.
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But but as in growth, it exposed to who supports you, who
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supports your vision, who supports your comfort.
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Not everyone wants more out of life and that's OK.
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You just know to keep that person at a distance.
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It could be a relative, it could be a friend, a long time friend,
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all kind of stuff. Because when you make the
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decision to better yourself, that's when you're really going
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to know who your true friends are, who your real family are,
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or who's just real around you in general.
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You're really going to know who you are.
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And when friendships, when the friendship circle shrinks,
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there's nothing wrong with that. Like I said, people have
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children and when soon as you invest in yourself, you really
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don't know who's in your corner. And then what changes is when
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your circle gets smaller. What changes is complaining,
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partying, staying stuck. Sometimes complaining is cool
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because you know, we all vibe together.
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We all ride or die. After a while things get old,
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you know what I'm saying? And when things start getting
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old, a person going to start thinking like, man, I can't see
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myself doing this every weekend. Every time I go I'll be
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something blah, blah, blah. It's a drama and I get it.
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You know, the drama thing is cool, but when you're trying to
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make certain decisions for yourself long term, certain
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things, you know, got to stop partying is cool.
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There's nothing wrong with it if you do it every once in a while.
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But when you do it on a consistent basis, they get old
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pretty quick. So you got to value your time.
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Realize who do you want in your circle.
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Some people don't have kids are cool.
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Some people have kids are really cool.
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But it all depends on if y'all on the same wavelength and y'all
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vibe and y'all can connect where it's not like a consistent
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thing. Y'all cool because when you're
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feeling stuck, when you're feeling stuck, it makes you
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wanna. You don't make some drastic
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changes to where it's like, you know what, you start isolating
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yourself. You start coming up with excuses
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or not want to do this and that because you want to change, but
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you don't know how to tell this particular crew of prayers that
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you have at this moment to be like, you know what, I just
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don't want to do it no more. And then when the circles
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continuously get smaller, you have time for planning, learning
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and executing. And like I said, when you're
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investing yourself, a lot of things changes.
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A lot of things changes and you think a whole lot more, you plan
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a whole lot more, you learn a whole lot more.
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So it's always a tough struggle because a lot of people don't
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want to leave a circle of friends.
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It's because they have to adapt to something new.
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When you adapt to something new, it's kind of scary because a lot
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of people shy by nature, selfish by nature and they don't like to
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be judged by nature. All normal things that is
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everyday and it's like it's some things that you just gotta learn
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how to deal with and it's a learning experience.
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I can't give a blueprint on that.
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It's just something that an individual, they gotta learn on
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their own and accept. And then, you know, as your
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circle team continuously get smaller, friends say you change,
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they call you too serious, you stop getting invited as much,
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not look at you as a sellout, but they see the change and you
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know, they feel like you're not gonna be part of the crew.
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There's nothing wrong with not being part of the crew.
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A lot of people need to realize that it's not the fact that some
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people don't have your best interests.
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A lot of people just need to respect like a person need to if
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they want to make a change. That's cool.
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If y'all was solid as friends or whatever the case may be, stick
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with that. There's nothing wrong with being
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there from a distance. Some people need satisfaction,
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gratitude every day. And sometimes some people don't
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need it every day, once a week, twice a week is cool chit chat
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everything. But to isolate yourself and
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treat them like the yesterday news because they decided to do
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something different, that ain't cool.
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That's not cool. But some people knew the old you
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and it's like something I had seen on a reel on Instagram.
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They say people that know you will never respect the new you
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because and they still got that last memory of the old you.
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And when they see the new you evolving, growing, doing what
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you doing, jealousy and envy as always, it's never going to stop
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and it's never going to go nowhere.
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But the strangers, they're going to like what they see because
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it's new to them. Like who's this person?
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But the old, old people that know the old you, it's just pure
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hate. And it's cool to have people
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around, don't get me wrong. But it's like after a while,
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like I said earlier, things get old and we learn all that stuff.
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It prepares for the discipline, focus, and version of you that
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you never knew existed until you decide to make a change.
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And not only do your circle grow smaller, dating and relationship
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growth creates standards. Now when you're investing in
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yourself or you having children or any major change in your life
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that you feel like it's a major change for yourself, it's going
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to change a lot of who you are as a person and you're going to
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start valuing things a whole lot different.
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A lot of people now that I see online was a consistent thing
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that peace over attention, support over attraction,
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alignment over chemistry. Peace over attention is always
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good. It just depends on if you and
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that person. And when I mean by
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relationships, I'm talking about dating, family relationship,
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friends, relationships, whatever your version of a relationship
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is, that's what we're going to rock with.
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When you choose peace over attention, it's really good
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because when you have peace and two people on the same
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wavelength and they understand what's going on, we both have
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objectives to complete before we can get this relationship going.
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There's nothing wrong with that as long as y'all got the
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foundation set. Well this was going to be.
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And then after that foundation is all about staying consistent
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and keeping this program going because if we rocking the way we
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say we are, it shouldn't be an issue.
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Then when a lot of people choose support over attraction, support
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is like if a person throw a birthday dinner and they invite
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you and you show up, that's support.
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Someone invite you over to hey, come have a drink with me, we
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doing blah blah. That support.
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Now if you go to the shindig and you want all the attention on
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you when they're not so much about the attention of you, it's
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just a fact of we are having a good time at this event.
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Dinner, drink, whatever that milk, whatever the occasion may
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be, it should always be about support.
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When people make attraction and attention to themselves, that's
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that jealousy and envy and the jealousy and envy and where a
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lot of people be like, well, I don't care about what it is,
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what about me? And then when you have that
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alignment, that's when both people on the same alignment,
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the same wavelength. That will always be better.
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The alignment over chemistry will always be the main focus
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because once you have that set foundation together and
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everything is going to rock together, it's going to go real
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smooth and then out and come with that.
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Of course, it's going to be challenges.
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There's going to be partners who don't understand your cry.
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They may feel neglected, complete with a purpose and try
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to pull back to comfort. I mean, when a person got
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something going on, they should understand that that you're
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trying to complete something. So if a person is doing all
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these different things, whether it's taking care of kids who are
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studying for an exam to get a contractor's license, whether
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it's going to college and make sure the midterm and grades is
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on point, or they're in a job and they're trying to get a
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promotion so they really dive into work.
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A person should never feel neglected when a person's trying
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to change something. But if that person is
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continuously doing what they doing and keep you in the loop,
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you're not being neglected. They keep you in the loop, but
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they're focused. Main thing is they focus and
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making sure that the program is still the program foundation,
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still the foundation. They still keep you in the loop.
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But once that complete, once everything is complete, then
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you're going to see the fruits of Labor come in.
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Most people go, oh, this was you.
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I thought if the person is telling you what they doing and
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I really telling nobody else, person is rocking with you,
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person is rocking with you. And some people when they feel
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neglected, they pull back, which is a normal thing because you
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know, when there's no set foundation, when there's a whole
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lot of iffiness going on and it's not a good set, ground
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rules or communication is normal.
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So it's, yeah, our main thing is all about communication and
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setting ground rules. And but the hard truth is love
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without alignment becomes friction.
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You can't build with someone who doesn't respect their mission.
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Now you can love a person all day, but if they're not going
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along with what you're trying to do and set a foundation, as time
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goes on, your circle gets smaller and then in the person
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you're trying to build with doesn't respect the mission.
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They there for the wrong reasons.
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They're there for the wrong reasons.
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And then you also had the family dynamics, the most emotional
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shift. And this is what hurts the most
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because family is everything. But when family doesn't believe
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in the vision or support the risk or understand the
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sacrifice, it's not necessarily to cut them off.
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It's just you gotta keep them at a distance.
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And in my previous episodes, you know, you got to know how to
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talk to people and you know what conversation have with certain
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people to not make them feel a certain type of way.
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But there's nothing wrong with it, you know, because a lot of
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people need to need to be told the truth about themselves is
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not light, but is needed. Everybody can't be on the get
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get along gang chain. You do.
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And some family members are used to the vision of you that stay
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small cause your family knows everything about you.
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So for them to see you grow, there's going to be some envy in
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there. There's going to be some
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jealousy. But with family, Lord, a lot of
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families don't realize it is when a person do that they
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changing that generational curse.
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And some people like the generational curse, some people
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love it. But after a point in time,
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somebody got to make the change because everything right now is
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generational. Ain't nothing new.
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It's just new people doing things that's been done over and
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over again. So it always got to take that
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one person to make a change. And when that person makes the
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change, it's going to be weird and funny in the beginning, but
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once it all come together, they don't see the fruits of Labor.
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Growth can make them uncomfortable because it's
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challenging what they settle for.
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And when you're doing something different, it's always going to
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be a challenge in the beginning. The thing is, you got to stay
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consistent and not worry about that noise in the background.
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Because if you worry about the noise in the background, you're
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not focused. You're still trying to live up
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to some something that they're used to, not the new you.
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And the important balance is after all that you still got to
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respect your family no matter what the situation may be and
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what the the reason may be. Because he's still blood at the
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end of the day. And just because they don't
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understand what you're going through or got going on.
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But you should still respect family, but don't shrink your
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dreams to protect their comfort because as I said in this
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previous episodes, this is your life and you got to live it the
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best way you know how. Because when it's all said and
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done, everybody going to dirt by itself down.
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We're about to touch on guilt, loneliness in the middle stage.
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The emotional side of growth is feeling guilty for choosing your
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filter future. A lot of people shouldn't feel
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guilty because they want to make a change.
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The only reason a person will feel guilty is because they
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don't know how to handle backlash.
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They don't know how to handle people not liking though.
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They don't know how to handle a lot of this stuff because it's
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not taught classroom, it's taught by experience.
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So are you feeling guilty for making a change in life?
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I mean, people have kids every day they got to make a change.
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They can't be the same old, same old as you'd be in the same old,
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same old when kids is watching you and they go continue that
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generational curse, whatever it may be.
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Every curse is different. So the loneliness becomes your
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circle gets smaller as you grow. Yeah, the circle's going to get
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smaller. It's going to be some days you
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feel lonely. But I always say when you're
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feeling lonely and you go out and try to relive the glory days
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of how it was back in the day, you're going to say to yourself,
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man, I should have stayed doing what I was doing because like I
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said, things get old real quick, man.
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It's cool to do it every once in a while.
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But once you'd invested so much in yourself and your children
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and you try to relive days that how it was before you had all
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that, it don't hit the same. That's when you know you need a
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new group of friends, a new crowd of people, and then
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someone be around people that got similar likeness to you.
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To where y'all on the same level to where it's not like it's
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looking like a flex, it's more like a we support one another.
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There's a dude I used to work with in Dallas.
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His whole mission and journey was to have a group of friends
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to where everybody was on the same wavelength and it wasn't no
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hate among everybody because everybody getting money,
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everybody doing what they doing and everybody is on successful
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in their own way and stable to where it's not a flex on each
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other. We're just grinding and trying
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to get to it the best way we can.
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And then in the midst of all that, feeling misunderstood.
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When you are becoming someone new, always the case.
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When I started my company, I lost a lot of friends.
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But people still watch in the shadows and it's all good.
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I'm not mad, I'm not bitter. But they watching though.
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Yeah, they watching, but it's all good.
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It's still some way of support and that's how I'll take it.
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I'll take nothing for granted. I just accept things for what it
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is and I keep doing me. But you got to understand this
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growth is isolating before it's rewarding.
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So you got a loan, you got to accept your growth.
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Once you accept your growth, then you start getting rewarded
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because you're already so low key getting used to the change.
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Once you get used to the changes of the stages and everything,
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everything don't happen overnight.
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It's a made practice situation, not really situation, but it's a
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process to where people still going to have that version of
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the old you, but they waiting to see if you're going to go back
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to the OU or there's going to be you for real.
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But every next level requires a new environment, new habits, new
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people. And like I said in a previous
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episode, once you leave where you're from, it doesn't matter
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where you go, the new environment, the new habits and
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the new people is going to accept you for who you are.
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Yeah, you got to pass. Everybody got to pass.
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But people change too, everyday. So I say that to say that when
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you make a change, it's not always bad.
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It's good. It's just a process when
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changing. When you change is a process,
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it's a good process. You learn a whole lot more about
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yourself versus being known for a reputation.
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And then we're going into how to handle outgrowing people without
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burning bridges. Now me, I'm not about arguing.
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I never did it back and forth with anybody, never having my
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own my whole life. But my whole thing is elevate.
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Even in past relationships, people are dated.
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Every person I come in contact with, I'm all about elevating.
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Tell them like, hey, you can do this, you can do that.
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It's all about growth. That's what I've been on with my
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whole life. So action speaks, not
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explanations. I can talk to a person all day,
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but my motto is I like to let action speak louder than my
00:23:17
words because that's the main thing when people look at it,
00:23:20
Oh, I hear you, but your actions say otherwise.
00:23:24
And some people about, oh, I hear you.
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Then they do a background check. OK, it's matching.
00:23:29
Oh, OK, I see what we're doing here.
00:23:31
So this is what I see a lot too. A lot of people need to stop
00:23:38
forcing connections that no longer fit your future.
00:23:44
A lot of people is not meant to grow with you.
00:23:48
Like I said, there's nothing wrong changing and keeping them
00:23:52
people in a distance, talking to them here and there.
00:23:55
But if they not going along with the new program and what you're
00:23:59
trying to do, listen no longer fit.
00:24:03
You just got to go along with the motions and continue with
00:24:06
the process because there's something better out there for
00:24:10
you. So it's just one thing to get
00:24:14
used to and yeah, get used to because everybody's not meant to
00:24:22
be on your journey. And what I learned from my past
00:24:26
relationships is everybody's not meant for you.
00:24:30
But it don't mean you didn't have a lot, a lot of fun with
00:24:33
that person that just didn't work out.
00:24:36
And with that being said, is you got to choose alignment over
00:24:42
attachment. You got to ask yourself, if I'm
00:24:45
with this person along with these group of people, are they
00:24:49
going to respect my time? Or if I tell them what I got
00:24:54
going on, are they going to support my vision?
00:24:58
Also, as you made a change, who's going to grow with me
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instead of competing with me? And then also this a big one.
00:25:09
Are you going to drain me or are you going to sharpen me?
00:25:13
That's the number one thing a lot of people need to respect
00:25:18
other folks time. Some people like to go into a
00:25:21
dark cloud and dark space and do things on their own to where
00:25:23
they don't want to function or interact with people.
00:25:26
There's nothing wrong with that as long as you communicate with
00:25:29
that person. Hey, I'm going through something
00:25:31
and you know, I just need time. It's all on that person you
00:25:36
communicate and information with to understand, OK, I can do
00:25:41
that. Then on top of that, like I said
00:25:44
early in the episode, you know, you got people that's working on
00:25:48
getting a promotion, investing in trade school, getting ready
00:25:53
to get a contractor's license or whatever the case may be,
00:25:56
depending on what trade they're in.
00:25:57
You got some people going to college and you have people that
00:26:01
just gave birth and as a new parent.
00:26:03
So you got to respect time and vision on all that because when
00:26:07
people are investing in their cells, they want people that
00:26:10
want to grow with them instead of competing with them.
00:26:14
Because when you made a change, you didn't already competed with
00:26:18
your old, the old you. It's all about who's going to
00:26:22
grow with the new you. And then if the people that the
00:26:26
old you was around, people that trained you, the new you should
00:26:33
have people that's going to sharpen you.
00:26:36
Now, when you make the transition of the old you to the
00:26:39
new you, you know who's going to train you and you know who's
00:26:43
going to sharpen you. It's all up to you on what you
00:26:50
want to deal with. And when you choose to deal with
00:26:53
these people that drain you or sharpen you, Yeah, I accept the
00:26:58
consequences. We all got one life to live and
00:27:03
got to make better decision making.
00:27:07
So in this episode, we learned that you're not wrong for one
00:27:15
for wanting more. Everybody wants more.
00:27:18
Everybody want to elevate. It's all in you to make the
00:27:24
change. You got to look in the mirror or
00:27:27
turn everything off, play some cool music, light a candle or
00:27:34
light an incense and do what you do and meditate and just think
00:27:38
about everything you did in life.
00:27:40
And it doesn't matter what age you win because we grow every
00:27:44
day. So you got to think about what
00:27:48
change you need to make or do you even want to change?
00:27:52
There's nothing wrong with it. It's your life, you got to live
00:27:55
it. Also, you're not disloyal for
00:28:02
evolving. There's nothing wrong with
00:28:05
evolving. Evolving is good.
00:28:07
Everybody goes through it because you got people that do
00:28:10
stuff as a kid and graduate through different things
00:28:13
depending on what their lifestyle is into.
00:28:16
Whatever they're into in their lifestyle, they're going to
00:28:18
evolve gradually, which is natural.
00:28:21
So if you're being disloyal, if people are looking at you being
00:28:29
disloyal for evolving, it's like I said earlier, they shouldn't
00:28:33
be alone with you on your journey.
00:28:36
And you're not selfish for choosing a purpose because you
00:28:40
want to do something different and something in life changed.
00:28:44
And you know, you're not selfish, you just making a
00:28:47
change. And a lot of people take it as
00:28:49
being selfish because they can't have that connection with you no
00:28:52
more. And that's going to hurt a
00:28:54
person the most when they see a person change for the better
00:28:59
instead of that person. Well, you know, I should do the
00:29:01
same thing. But a lot of people stuck in
00:29:04
their ways in the early age, which makes life my family.
00:29:08
Curses are generational. So that's what we're dealing
00:29:12
with right now. And the final thoughts, some
00:29:17
people were part of the chapter, but not the whole book.
00:29:23
And we don't leave that right there.
00:29:25
Now, before I close this out, remember this.
00:29:34
Your story matters. Your grind matters and where
00:29:38
you're heading is bigger than where you started.
00:29:42
No shortcuts, no excuses, just hustle and purpose.
00:29:47
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00:30:33
And a message to the youth. There's nothing wrong with
00:30:40
growing because the old you is the old you.
00:30:44
It's all about are you going to respect the new you?
00:30:48
Until next time, late.